I mean I'm not sitting around feeling sorry for myself. If you really want to go out with someone who will drop their plans with other people when something else more interesting comes along, we really aren't compatible at all.
2. "I would be intrigued to know if you find yourself drawn to conventional / traditional relationships, or whether you prefer to remain free spirited, and take a more unconventional route towards connecting?"
You want a good time girl you don't have to make a commitment to. I said specifically I'm looking for a committed relationship - eventually. I don't actually see a relationship with you working out to be the "best of both worlds," although you'd probably find it so, until I dumped you about three months in, because that's how much patience I have for dating someone who thinks that not showing up when they said they would is okay.
3. "I have a girlfriend (going out for 8 years, sex life almost non existent), I hope that doesn't stop things before they start with you but I thought I should be honest about why I'm here and what my situation is. x
So you want to cheat on your girlfriend. Congrats on being honest with me. It's a start. Try this approach to the rest of your life, scum.